Uplifting questions that foster appreciation and gratitude from ‘Tiny Buddha’.

1. What’s one kind or thoughtful thing someone did for you recently?

2. Who is always there for you, and how do you feel about them?

3. Who has helped you become the person you are today, and what’s the top thing you’d thank them for?

Writing a list of ‘good facts’ is a powerful way of reminding ourselves that whatever else is going on, there are a lot of positive things going on in our lives too.

These ‘good facts’ exist whether we are currently feeling low, depressed, anxious or happy and relaxed. Reminding ourselves of these good facts help us to build and maintain resilience through current or future stressful times.

Regularly reminding ourselves of what is going right in our lives counteracts our natural tendency to focus on our problems. We tend to focus on what is not right particularly when we are struggling with a low mood, anxiety or depression. It is during these times that we particularly benefit from a focus on what we are thankful for, even if it is a struggle to get going with a gratitude list when we feel like this. do it anyway! While it won’t immediately transform our current mood, if you develop a regular practise you can retrain the mind to focus on what is going well.

Learn to be self-compassionate and talk gently to yourself. Replace judging or criticising yourself by developing a nurturing inner voice and say to yourself during hard times “You’re a good person going through a hard time. You’ll get through this, lets take one moment at a time. It will be okay”.

An awareness of our strengths, qualities and inner resources can loosen the grip of negative emotions such as anxiety and depression and can help us to build resilience for the future and to make more space for gradually increasing our happiness level.

Here are 5 easy habits to practise that will help to increase your happiness and wellbeing :

Whatever motivates you to consider counselling or psychotherapy, a majority of people feel better speaking to someone professional who is trained to listen deeply to you with empathy and unconditional positive regard.

A good therapist doesn’t tell you what to do or how to live your life. He or she will give you an experienced outside perspective and help you gain insight into yourself so that you can make better choices.